Problems with dating a married woman
At the same time, they would not want a divorce from the current relationship. Keep your mouth shut about the affair - Don't start announcing it to your friends about the hot married woman you're seeing. All they are looking for during this secret pursuit is just to look for the passion, care and love that they are deprived of. Not only you will end up hurting yourself, (emotionally and physically), but also you will end up hurting the husband and your beloved lover. But if you are truly madly with her and the fact that having an affair with her still entices you, then find ways to please her while the relationship lasts. This means being able to hold a decent conversation with a healthy amount of genuine humor thrown in. On the other hand, keep your own life a mystery, women are intrigued by this. Phone calls and text messages are acceptable in the beginning, but don’t try to build the relationship like this.Don’t force humor; wait until a natural moment to spontaneously show your funny side. Phones are only tools to create a time and place to spend more time together. But remember she’s married to someone else and that means that she’s not yours – at least not right now. There are all kinds of different soul mates and not all soul mate relationships have to translate into a sexual or romantic relationship.
Not to mention you would somehow have to suffer emotionally if the relationship does not end too well after it blossomed.
At the moment, the emotions you are feeling are created by separation anxiety.
‘It may feel as if everything is falling apart but, in reality, you are at the crossroads of making an important choice – whether to be a victim of this circumstance or not,’ says Dr Cecilia d’Felice.
”’ You’ll be ready to start the recovery then – and it starts with cutting her out of your life completely.
It’ll feel terrible at first, like going cold turkey, but as the love poison drains from your system, you’ll realise one day that you’re not thinking about her.